Balancing Your Home and Business Life
March 1, 2008
For moms who work from home, balancing the home and business sides of their lives can feel downright impossible, especially when the reason they began working from home was so they could spend more time with family. However, many home businesses actually fail because moms don’t manage to balance business and home life. How can you juggle your family’s needs, your business needs and occasionally find some time for your needs without being a super hero?
The first thing any mom should do to achieve balance is to get the family involved. If your children and husband support you, you will find that they interrupt less often and are more likely to pitch in to get household chores done. You’re probably thinking that will happen the day the moon turns to blue cheese, right? However, if you mention that you need to get a major project done and will be able to buy a pizza and rent a video when you are paid, you may be surprised at how quickly everyone pitches in to help out.
If you have young children, they may not be able to understand the concept of waiting for a reward. To get your younger children involved, try explaining what you are doing in very simple terms and having them help you. Set up a small desk or table for your toddlers and add crayons and paper so they can help you with your work by drawing some pictures or writing a letter. Children that are a bit older can put stamps on envelopes and seal them, paperclip papers together or do other simple organizational tasks.
Of course, no matter how supportive your family and friends are, they are not going to be happy if you work 15 hours a day. Make sure that you ask for uninterrupted time to do your job or run your business, but also make sure that you schedule time for your family and friends. While you are making up that schedule, don’t forget your significant other. If you sit at your computer all evening after the children are tucked away for the night, you may end up with some serious relationship issues!
Once your family and friends are involved and you’ve scheduled time for them in your life, it is time to consider a few ways to make the most of your valuable work time. While you may be tempted to work non-stop during the time you have dedicated to your business, you should actually try to take some breaks. Taking a half-hour walk or having lunch away from your desk can really help you recharge your mind and keeps your body from growing stiff and tired. When you sit back down, you can do so with a clearer view of your goals and fresh energy and focus.
Also, don’t be afraid to make a “to do” list for your business. Write the four or five items you absolutely must do on your list and promise yourself that you will get them done before you visit your favorite forums or check your email. This can really help you get more work accomplished in less time.
So, although you may not have super powers, you can still have a home life, a business life and some time for yourself. The next time you are feeling overwhelmed, take a deep breath, ask your family for some help and try out a few of these great ideas for balancing your life.
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Great advice, Aurelia. I’m learning, the hard way, that I spend too much time in front of my computer. Of course, since I homeschool, I get interrupted a lot, which makes me have to push too close to deadlines, but I’m managing. I do need to devote more time to my hubby, though. I know he likes the extra money I make, especially when I spend it on HIM, but I know I miss him. It’s a pretty good guess he misses me, too.
Amen! I had a fun experience where I explained to my family that we could spend $400 a month to hire a cleaning service or they could pitch in and we could use that $400 for more fun things.
They’re beginning to understand the value of money and quickly jumped on board. One thing I find is that you have to provide structure for your family because quite often they don’t know what to do. We printed off the check list the maid service used, copied it and assigned a room or rooms to each family member. Now we do a thorough cleaning once a month in addition to the regular straightening that is required for their allowance and we have time to do family stuff in the evenings because mom still has energy to smile.
And I actually applied the “Get everything important done before you check your email” trick today. It meant I didn’t check email until after 5:00 but everything was finished before dinner.
Thank you for the great reminders and tips to maintain our sanity Aurelia, it’s so important!